Friday, April 30, 2010

And a bunch more random pictures

Originally this post was going to be about spring! And how it came and went and came and went. But I never got around to adding the words to go with the pictures, so now I'm posting a random bunch of pictures from late March and early April. Bear with me, it's crazy times.

Too much birthday party.

First day of spring hiking (loosely speaking) on Plum Island.

Enjoying post-hike ice cream in Newburyport.

Eli and Grace, making the same face. Look how they've grown since they were three and five months old

Picnic in the Garden.

Walking practice.

Happy baby.

Victory of some sort.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Packing

It has started, cannot be avoided any longer despite my best efforts. The apartment is basically a disaster area, with heaps of boxes and packing material and coded piles for what we're giving to whom and what we need to get rid of and what goes in the car versus the pods versus the planes. The walls are bare and many of the shelves, too. The winter clothes are mostly packed. We start packing the kitchen next weekend. We have taken an entire carload to Goodwill and doubtless we'll be back there soon. If you're in the area and want our couch and armchair, let us know. They're such a lovely eggplant color, I'll miss them. But anyway, Grace is very helpful. She gleefully emptied several shelves to get us started. She really is her father's daughter. Or perhaps she's just 11 months old.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Reunion

I have a backlog of photos and posts, stuff I wrote and meant to post when it happened, but never did. So, with Grace's birthday next week I'm going to try to get caught up and start her second year (aghghagh!!!) fresh. This means random posts that aren't terribly current and a mishmash of photos from recent doings. So without further ado...

Last month we had a grad school clique reunion at Sarah's new condo while Margaret and Caroline were passing through town. Congrats, Sarah!

The policy wonks. Wonkettes?
A while ago I realized I was never going to finish the baby blanket I started knitting for Grace when I was pregnant so I gave Anna the yarn since she recently took up knitting blankets for charity. Well, she took that yarn and ran with it, making Grace a super adorable bunny and a scarf for me (she could knit circles around me with one hand and her eyes closed). Here's a little mutual adoration...

Monday, April 26, 2010

I heart Maine

Watching your child play with one of your oldest friend's children while drinking campfire (aka Nate's special Islay scotch) is a good way to spend the weekend. We almost had to cancel the long-planned trip to Maine again for a sick child, but so glad we risked it. As usual, we had a fab time with Rachel, Nate, and Molly and got to meet their newest family member, Isla!

All the weekend photos are here, but just few highlights...

Old friends, new people.

Jazz hands.

Walking practice.

Double fisted.

Building a tower taller than Molly!

Ladies' morning walk.

Not shown is the yummy ice cream from the seasonal walk-up stand (one of my favorite New England treats), excellent bbq dinner by chef Nate, early morning bagel run (moms' morning out), and the HD antenna project carefully undertaken by the boys. What a good time.

P.S. I always love visiting people who live in houses. Such a treat, not to mention the fresh Maine air.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Latest obsession

Because we like to be so late with trends that we lead the come back, we've finally gotten into Mad Men. We finished the first season over the weekend and are obsessed. But the thing is, we're not sure why. Many of the characters are jerks and each episode leaves us feeling a little melancholy. Then, the next morning we start talking about how we can't wait to see the next one. Sure, the style is fantastic and the portrayal of the era fascinating, and course it brings up the timeless question about being a housewife (is it supposed to be clever that Mrs. Draper's name is Betty?). And it makes me want to finish each day with a gin and tonic. But why are we so addicted?

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Promotion

Today is Grace's first day in a new classroom at daycare. She and a few other old babies were promoted to the toddler room. I think she'll have fun in there, and she already knows the teachers. Still, it's a little hard to believe she's ready for it. She was sitting at the little table with one of the other girls, playing with toy, and smiling and laughing as I left. Exactly as I would hope. Still - growing up so fast!

Monday, April 19, 2010

Diaper change: a drama in infinite parts

1) Place baby on changing table/pad/whatever surface. Baby commences screaming, crying, and writhing.

2) Attempt to placate baby with pacifier, faux hospital id (absolute favorite toy, will maul father to find it - normal apparently as pedi's kids do too), and other typically forbidden toys. Fail at placation as infant thrashes and rolls over, sits up, grabs everything in reach, throws things, screams.

3) Move to floor and remove diaper from now standing baby. Cross fingers there are no showers as nudist begins to cruise or crawl away.

4) Attempt to get one side of diaper fastened, but fail, so try other side. If it's evening, call for reinforcements. Each parent takes a side of diaper and, working quickly, maybe gets diaper crookedly fastened.

5) Rest while baby scampers off without pants, giggling hysterically.

6) Wrangle baby for clothing. Again, if it's evening, both parents grab baby and wrestle into pajamas, limb by limb. Baby wriggles and screams until joint effort at snapping pajamas ends when parents concede it's not necessary all be fastened for baby to sleep. If it's daytime and reinforcements are not available, cling to kicking, hollering baby and put one pant leg on, then attempt second leg before first is kicked off. Fail. Alternate legs for a while.

7) Eventually get baby dressed. Rest. Realize why you are not going through diapers as quickly as you used to. Wonder how long till potty training and how you will manage as child grows.

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Make this tomato sauce

I am not really a big fan of tomato sauces. They're alright, but I'll usually pick something else when given the choice. However, although I already wrote about it on the food blog a while ago, I have to mention the most amazing tomato sauce from Smitten Kitchen here as well. We've made it a few times and it is so so good, plus Grace loves it. The best part is how ridiculously simple it is. Put three ingredients in a pot, then simmer. Steve even made it.

However, here's a tip I discovered tonight. When you're waiting for the pasta water to boil and it doesn't for half an hour, check to see if there's water in the pot. It's going to be an age before I hear the end of this one from my darling husband. The evening rapidly went downhill from there and culminated when I accidentally dropped Grace's highchair tray full of food and pasta sauce on the table, spattering everywhere right after Steve and I had cleaned her and everything in sight. And of course, I was just starting to say "and now the grown ups are going to enjoy the rest of dinner."

But seriously, try the pasta sauce. Just don't channel me when you do it.

Friday, April 16, 2010

Bookshelf: The Stories of Eva Luna

Oh, my. Isabel Allende is my new Wallace Stegner. I will swoon at her name and ration her books. The second of her works I've read in the past few months, The Stories of Eva Luna was amazing.

Not counting Anna Karenina (which I will one day finish) I may have set a personal record for how long it took me to read this. However, it was simply fabulous. I have gone on about the wonders of truly good short stories here before, so I won't do it again, but this collection of stories was rich, beautifully written and deeply moving. The stories covered many times, places, and perspectives. Some were joyous, some were melancholy, some mystical, some heartbreaking. I have not read her novel Eva Luna, but obviously I will now have to. Ahh. Maybe it took so long to read because I couldn't bear to finish.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Aaand, Done. Make that DONE!

Well, I think Grace isn't nursing anymore. She refuses when I offer, and by refuses, I mean screams and flings herself from my lap. Pardon me for suggesting something so horrific!

This is good, I suppose. We were winding down anyway and have been supplementing with formula for a while now. I planned to give it up around her birthday, definitely before moving. I'm glad that it's not a traumatic transition for her, and there are certainly advantages. I think when you're first nursing a newborn and you're exhausted and hungry all the time, you look forward to the freedom of not nursing, but as the baby gets older and is only nursing very quickly a few times a day, it becomes more precious. So I guess I'm a little ambivalent about giving that up. And I was mentally preparing to stop nursing in May, so with it coming earlier than anticipated, I guess I'm taken a bit by surprise. On the other hand, I didn't have any angst about the "last time" since I didn't realize it. And she's still cuddly... if she stops moving long enough.

Oh, and since I never wrote most of what I meant to on the subject of breastfeeding (lucky you!) I will post this piece that I've been intending to for some time and that everyone should read on the subject. I have watched so many friends unexpectedly struggle with breastfeeding, causing tremendous anguish. In all the pro-nursing propaganda, no one mentions that sometimes it just doesn't work. And that doesn't reflect whatsoever on one's mothering. Okay, end soapbox.

Although Grace easily dispatched with this aspect of weaning, we will have to give up the bedtime bottle sometime in the next few months. And it terrifies me. I'm not sure what a difference it makes in her sleeping through the night (her appetite is so uneven and sometimes she eats very little for dinner, other times she's insatiable), but I do know it's a significant bedtime cue. She is so ready for her bottle and quiet time in the rocking chair. She grabs the bottle and drinks so peacefully and then lets us know, very clearly, when she's done with it... by screaming, shoving the bottle out of her way and wrestling to get up. We kiss her goodnight, put her in the crib, and she rolls over, scrunches up and goes to sleep. So sweet. I dread giving up this smooth little routine. However, she has surprised me before with transitions so maybe it'll be fine. But you know me, I need to worry about the worst-case scenario for a while.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Two things

I forgot a couple things I meant to mention in my last post...

1) Grace has teeth! Two of them! Teething was neither easy nor especially terrible time, but it's very exciting because we were starting to worry. The doctor said, "you both have teeth, right?" To which I replied, "uh yea, kind of..."

2) What kind of neurotics raise a child whose first real word is "uh oh"? Sigh.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Eleven months old

Eleven is a really big number. It's so close to twelve.

And eleven didn't really start so well. . . turns out Gracie's "mood" was an ear infection. It was a rough week with Grace being extremely clingy, cranky and not sleeping or eating well. Finally, I thought she seemed much more miserable than with just a cold, so against instinct I called the doctor. Glad I trusted myself - she already seems a little happier, and hopefully after a few more days of antibiotics, our cheerful baby will be back.

Grace seems to be working on both language and walking. I remember marveling at some eleven month old friends when Gracie was nine months and thinking how much more coordinated and precise their movements seemed. Now I can see the same change with Grace. She pulls up on all sorts of surfaces, even very unstable things, and can sit down carefully if you let go of her or if she lets go because something new interests her. She climbs around and flips herself here and there to get at whatever she wants or needs. We got her a push toy, and she quickly figured out how to use it and walk all the way across the room, but she seems to lose interest fairly quickly so we'll see if that actually makes any difference in when she walks. She's also cruising a little more instead of sitting down to scoot over to the next thing or person of interest. She'll even walk if we hold only one of her hands.

Language . . . hmmm. We think Grace's first word was "uh oh." We started to notice that when we said it, we'd hear a little echo a few seconds later. She gets a kick out of saying it all the time - all. the time. But I also think she says it in context, especially when something drops or falls. For instance, the other day she tossed her sippy cup on the ground, and when I asked "what did you do?" she grinned and said, "uh oh!" Her absolute favorite sound remains "dada" and she definitely says it more to Steve and when he's around, so we think she has made that connection. I'm trying to think it's awesome. Occasionally if we say hello, she'll make a similar sound, especially while she's making phone calls. We also think that "na na na" means I want something that I don't have - usually it's her sippy cup while she's eating (and usually she has just gleefully flung it off the highchair after taking a drink). I've heard that language development/acquisition is one of the most amazing and fun times of parenthood and I can see it already. I'm so looking forward to it.

The other funny thing Grace has been doing lately, and this is just normal developmental timing, is using objects "correctly". She has a toy cell phone that she started holding up to her ear, and she does the same with mine. She also will put a brush or comb to her hair. Once her appetite is back, we'll try giving her a spoon to feed herself.

Oh, and she has started to wave more consistently for both hello and goodbye. She was avidly greeting people in the doctor's waiting room on Wednesday (I think actually that just being in the waiting room made her get better - she was sick when we got there and her happy self by the time we were called back). She was really friendly and smiley with the doctor (we'd never seen him before) and he said, "you know what, Grace? I think you like new people in your life." He had her figured out.

Here are a few snaps of her taking some calls on Thursday, her eleven month day.

Monday, April 5, 2010

How to lose friends and alienate people

In honor of opening day...
But now, a peace offering.
Can't we all just get along?

She doesn't really look so pleased about these photos, does she? That's because someone is sick. Again. We made it through February and March with only a runny nose, but now there's a low-grade fever. And a sad baby.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Happy Easter!

We had a wonderful Easter weekend. Steve didn't have to work and we had great, warm weather. Saturday we enjoyed a little packing, a long walk, and ice cream (a big back load of photos to come), all of which triggered some serious Boston nostalgia. Today after church, we headed to Somerville to celebrate Easter with some residency friends. We're going to miss these people!

John tried to teach Grace that music tables are more fun upside down.

Then they had some string cheese.

Eli and John tried to show Grace and Jasper how to pound and jump at the same time.

Grace and Jasper strategize for the egg hunt.

The strategy was largely based on delegation.

Eli very sweetly helped Grace collect a few.

She really liked taking the eggs back out of the basket.

It's serious business sorting eggs.

Thank you to Stephanie and John for hosting a great day!
All the photos here.